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We understand that the idea of a jerk off club or a masturbation community is already a strange one so here are some FAQ's that we hope will help clarify and unknowns. If you still have questions, please reach out by sending us a message using the contact form. 

  • How do I know when a meetup event will be?
    All event info and planning is doen via email and the provate telegram group. Please get in touch to fiond out how you can get access to the Telegram group and be part of the next event.
  • Can I have penetrative sex at the event?
    No, CT Jacks is a masturbation only event. If anal stimulation is part of your jacking of foreplay then you are welcome to have LIGHT play with your own ass. We know that some trans men masturbate using toys and that is 100% welcome but no sharing of toys.
  • Can I use poppers at the event?
    Yes, but poppers has a strong negative affect with some guys and turns them off. Out of respect, always ask guys around if they are ok with you using poppers. Some events that do have multiple rooms and space might have dedicated popperbate areas for you to enjoy - this info will be shared with every event release.
  • Can I take photos?
    No phones are allowed on the play floor. Photography is not allowed during the event. If photos are being taken, all members will be consulted first and permission from all will be needed.
  • Can I have a drink or use party drugs?
    Drinking: Yes, but drink responsibly. There is a "no getting drunk" rule. Some venues will also have alcohol for sale. We do not tolerate intoxication and organizers will ask you to leave in the event. Do not arrive drunk. Drugs: No party drugs or weed will be allowed. Do not arrive high. You will be asked to leave.
  • Is kissing allowed?
    Above the hips yes and only when you have been given consent.
  • Can I perform oral or rim someone?
    No. If this is something you want to do then this community is not for you.
  • Is sex toys allowed?
    Masturbator toys, cock rings, cock pumps and body gear are all ok to bring and be used. Please make sure you clean and sanitize your toys always before use. Do not share anal/vaginal toys.
  • Can I bring a friend?
    CT Jacks is a exclusive and private club so all members have to be approved before being allowed to join a event. If you are not on the guest list, you can not attend.
  • Do I have to play with older/younger/whaterever men?
    You are not required to touch or be touched by anyone. You get to decide who, if anybody, is your playmate. With that said, we encourage participants to use Jacks events as an opportunity to confront prejudices about age, race and body type. There are phenomenally hot and erotic men of all ages, race and build. But, if, at the end of the day, you’re not turned on by the friendly, erotic and fraternal energy of a multi-generational and race group, then our events are probably not for you.
  • What's your policy on transgender individuals?
    CTJacks welcomes anyone who identifies as a man, regardless of physicality. The great majority of members are cis-gender male and we have welcome trans men to partake. It is important to underscore that every member of CTJacks, including any man with a vagina, is required to honor the Code of Conduct, including rules governing consent, mutual respect and non-penetration. We do absolutely maintain our identification as a club for men. What we don’t do is define what constitutes a man. We do not permit any female-identified individuals to enroll or participate. We welcome educational moments and conversations about gender identity but we do ask that you leave your political and religious views by the door and just be present in the moment.
  • What about STIs? Is jerking off with other guys safe?
    There are two things safer than group JO: solitary JO and no sex at all. In the 41 years since HIV’s initial diagnosis, mutual masturbation has been responsible for zero cases of HIV infection (that has been reported). However, there are some risk with regards to other STD's so we do encourage members to avoid getting semen on or near any bodily openings. More broadly, as a sex-positive organization, we encourage all members make informed, thoughtful decisions about their own health and harm reduction strategies, in particular with respect to their sexual activities outside of the Jacks environment. There are resources available such as IvanToms - Health For Men, a free men's sexual health clinic. We recommend chatting to them if you seek more information about STD's.
  • How diverse is the members who join?
    Our commitment to inclusion and diversity is one of our priorities. Aside from the requirement that you be an adult man (18+), we do not discriminate against anyone for any subjective trait. We do not screen prospective members on the basis of age, race, ethnicity, body type, fitness level or sexual orientation or HIV status.
  • Why should I pay?
    Some events are hosted at establishments that have venue charge which is not associated with CTJacks - meaning, none of the cover charge will go to CTJ. CTJ do not set the price and also have no control over the rate. There is however a community fee of R50 pp. which needs to be paid to secure your name on the guest list. This is needed to be paid upfront before attending the event. This covers admin costs, supplied lube station, clean hand towels for all and any other costs required to host a event. This is a passion project but to make sure only serious men attend, a fee is required. Payment methods will ne shared before events.

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